How to Design a Living Room

How to Design a Living Room

The process of designing a living room is exactly that. A process. Especially when the room has multiple functions like ours does. Designing a space that feels warm, functional, and one that has that natural flow isn’t always easy. Our living room completely transformed over the years as our family grew and our needs changed. A large coffee table was replaced with a soft ottoman – one we could move out of the way so our girls could play. Oversized chairs were replaced with smaller ones to save on space. From furniture and rug size to layout and functional storage, I’m going to share how we designed a family-friendly living room. It’s centered around both the fireplace and TV, with space for our kids to play.

How to Design a Family Friendly Living Room

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First, a backstory on the evolution of our living room. Our home has one sitting room that functions as both a living room and family room. We do have a sofa and TV in the basement, but that room is really a playroom, so it’s not somewhere we hang out very often. When we first moved into our home, we bought a sofa we loved. Just over a year later, we cofounded Anecdote. Given what I do, it didn’t make sense not to feature Anecdote in my home. I also saw our current sofa and fell in love immediately – it was meant to be.

We had two chairs that I designed for an old collaboration, so I had to feature them, but they were way too large for the space. When they were discontinued, I sold them, but opted for a chaise to open up the space for our growing family. It wasn’t the most practical seating arrangement, but the girls had room to play. Last year, we ordered these smaller scale chairs (they have since been discontinued 😭).The chaise is now in storage, and these chairs are perfect for the space.

Plan your living room layout

When planning your layout, think about form and function. Know your preferences. I knew that the TV was not the first thing I wanted anyone to see when entering our living room, so that ruled out hanging it over the fireplace. It can be tempting to put furniture against walls to free up space, but that doesn’t always work. Having the furniture in the middle of the room made the space easier to walk through, providing easy access to the office. It also allowed for some extra play space for our girls to play, too.

How to Design a Living Room

How to Design a Living Room

How to Design a Living Room

Choose the right furniture

When choosing furniture, choose pieces that fit the room, work together aesthetically, and consider your needs. Start with bigger pieces, and select the rest of your furniture around those. Know what you like and stick to it. I am personally not a fan of sectionals so that was out for us. They’re great in a basement family room/TV room, but I do not like them in main living spaces. There’s something about them – they lack any and all charm and are generally not very pretty. I prefer beautiful pieces with curves and detail.

If you opt for a more tailored sofa, consider paring them with slipcovered chairs. We had a coffee table that looked great in the space, but it was so large and not ideal for our daughters who needed more space to play, so we changed it for a softer, round ottoman on casters. It’s so easy to roll out of the way making space for the girls to play. Try to mix mediums – it’s ok to pair patterns and to mix woods. If you’re struggling, look up rooms you love on Pinterest for ideas.



Choose performance fabrics, like crypton, that resist stains. Slipcovered chairs can be cleaned easily, too. I am not one to shy away from lighter fabrics and will tell you that our dark ottoman gets dirty, too. I’d rather take good care of the pieces we own and know when they’re dirty. Our furniture is professionally cleaned quarterly, and the girls can have milk and snacks in here, but we try to avoid anything especially messy. That’s not to say that they haven’t spilled smoothies on the sofa because they have. Life is meant to be lived. Stains happen. It’s fine.

How to Design a Living Room

How to Design a Living Room

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Add lighting

I’m going to say it. I hate cans. Hate them. Overhead lighting is a bit harsh, lacks any and all warmth, and I hate it. We had two especially ugly cans above the fireplace and ended up getting rid of them, and wiring in these beautiful sconces (on dimmers). I love a soft, lampshade, so adding sconces by the fireplace and a lamp to our console brought a lot of warmth into the room.

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Try not to make the TV the focal point of the room

The fireplace is the focal point of our room, so having pieces around that was important. We needed a TV, but I am also very much not a fan of TVs above fireplaces. We needed a way to frame the room around both the fireplace and TV, while making it easy to access our office through the french doors. By creating groupings around but not facing the fireplace, we allowed for gathering spaces around both the fireplace and TV. Adding an open console across from the fireplace brought both functional storage for decor and toys, lighting, and a place to draw attention away from our wall-mounted TV. See how I added a gallery wall around the TV in our old condo.

The TV is actually on a swivel stand, so it can be pulled out from the wall to face the sofa. The baskets on the console store toys (but you’d never know it) and the books and decor distract from the TV above.

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Consider storage and function

This living room is also our family room, and we have two young girls, so making it a space that worked for them was key. Baskets hold toys, they have a little table to play at, and a playmat that works with our decor, and folds up for easy storage. I actually designed this play mat for Toki Mats, and a % of each sale goes to Alex’s Lemonade Stand childhood cancer research.

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How to Design a Living Room with shelves

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Warm things up with pillows and accessories

I prefer neutral furniture for a few reasons. I won’t tire of it, and it’s so easy to mix in different colors and patterns with throw pillows and blankets. Adding throw pillows is a great way to add some pattern, texture, and warmth to a room. Accessories can be a bit overwhelming, but they really complete the room. I personally like bringing in some ginger jars, vintage objects, family photos, and woven elements. I love the built in shelves, and they’re purely decorative, but a nice place to hold family photos, books, and objects.

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Add some greenery

Every room needs greenery. We have a fiddle leaf fig (it’s real) that has held up very well. The planter is from Vagabond in Western Springs, IL. If caring for a real tree isn’t your thing, there are some great faux options out there. The branches are real, but I need to finally spring for some faux ones because they never last long enough.

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Choose the right living room rug

Rugs are pricey and finding a family-friendly jute (if that’s your thing) is an undertaking. Fortunately, I did some extensive research and found the perfect jute rug. Don’t choose a rug that’s too small for the space. This is a 9×12, and fits the room perfectly. One of the most common mistakes I see are rugs that are too small for a room. I personally prefer when the rug is at least under the front legs of the sofa and chairs. Choose a rug that works for the space. Jute is tricky because it’s not always soft and sheds, but I love our jute rug. The shedding is pretty minimal and it’s so, so soft. It has worn really well, you can’t see where I spilled an entire cup of coffee. And jute is a lot more budget-friendly than most rugs.

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